A
female
age
30-35,
*oodle_dudette
writes:hey, I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year 3 months now. It's a really good relationship, I know he loves me and he hates being apart from me and I really love him. He called me every night almost before christmas, it annoyed my parents a lot some nights i was on the fone from 9 until 4 in the morning, stupid i know but we had so much to talk about. At christmas he went away to Ukraine to visit his grandparents, he emailed me all the time and called me when he could, he kept saying he couldnt wait to see me again, he really missed me and was really sweet. When he got back he called me for 5 min at the airport, fair enough i thought he's on his mobile. When i saw him the next day it was like a bulldozer he wouldnt let go, he was stuck to me, but he never called me like he promised. Since then he hardly calls and when he does we don't talk about much or its only for 5 minutes. He said he was going to call me but went into town instead, i only see him at 6th form and thats not for long, we have exams so we don't meet up much more but when we do its amazing, but i cant understand why he doesnt bother talking to me anymore.It really hinders the way I act because I'm used to talking everything through with him. i just dont understand it he has the time, the phone bill is free but he never bothers to think of calling me.
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (15 March 2007):
 He has exams to study for, and so do you! Unless you want a guy who says "do you want fries with that?" for the rest of his life, give him space to swot up for his exams, (and you could do the same thing too). You could always suggest that you study together, and keep it as study; perhaps reserve weekends for fun times? Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 March 2007):
 I think it's natural as time passes to not have the same "we can fill a whole day talking to each other" thing. You've told him all your best stories and he's told you all of his. The relationship should be secure enough now to not need this constant contact. Or maybe he wants you to call him to show you care?
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