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*pendy
writes:Why is he lying? should I say anything to him?My ex boyfriend broke up with me cos he said he didn't want a relationship. He told me he loved me everyday and I loved him so much. I was devastated when we split:( We got back into contact after a couple of months later. He says he misses so much to the point where he's thinking about me when he's with other girls.He rings me everyday now. He comes to see my at work, takes me to lunch and we go shopping. He puts his arm around me and holds me hand. and always talk about our past.He says he doesn't have a girlfriend. But when his phone rings or he receives a text, he says is his mum. But I know is not.The thought of him and someone else hurts me so much. What is upto? He knows him and I won't have sex cos am not that kinda girl.Should I say anything to him? Why does he lie about who he's seeing? Thanks..x
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reader, GoodDog +, writes (4 August 2011):
 I agree with the others on this one. Don't let him play with you emotions or use you when he sees fit.
What if he decides to finish with you again?
I would tread carefully and not build your hopes up if he promises to change, etc.
Think about what you want and not what he wants, no matter how many things he tries to use to convince you - stories of your past relationship, etc.
Look after yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): Ask him outright and tell im you do not know what he playing at , and it;s only fair of him to let you know, as you don;t feel you can trust him right now and need to know where you stand so you can move on or not. Just do it. if you can't say it email it to him, and put it as a question. Don;t be over emotional. handle it like an adult. That will make him either answer you as an adult, or go away. Good luck.
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reader, wild-orchid-  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 He's using you. Tell him to be frank or you'll leave him. I can't believe it's always his mum :|
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Yeah you should say say something...say Goodbye, He's a jerk and using you...say goodbye and go live in a different town or country.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 I think you should cut ties. He dumped you because he no longer wanted to be in a relationship so tell him to leave you alone. You are already wondering if he is lying about seeing other girls.
There is no trust and he is not being fair with you. Tell him you want to be left alone where he doesn't want a relationship. I think he is using the excuse we are not together so he can date other girls while continue to use you.
Move on and find someone who won't play games. Good Luck!
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