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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Because since he is MARRIED, he knows that what he is doing is wrong and disrespectful to you. But since he has no self control and does it anyways, he figures if he just hides it and lies about it, its not half as disrespectful as if he came straight out and told you about it. That's his justification. That's all. I could not handle a guy who did that to me. My ex was addicted to porn. I begged him to stop. To me its like cheating. I wanted him all to myself. I felt that he should have felt lucky that he had a girl that felt that way about him. He claimed he would stop but kept doing it. So I left him. Its been a year and a half and I know that deep down he is never going to meet a girl like me and is soon going to realise that he chose a very lonely pathetic life. But oh well. I am not going to stand for that.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (15 December 2007):
Because he obviously thinks you woudnt approve and perhaps assumes it may upset you. A fair majority of women dont like there partners looking at porn and stuff...so no suprise here that hes tryign to hide what he does.
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male
reader, Yos  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 Perhaps because he's ashamed
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): because he`s lusting after these women as all men do,making you feel ugly and unloved
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reader, Serinity  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 Because he doesn't want to get caught for the fear of how you might react.
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