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writes:Me and My ex boyfriend were broken up for two month now he Left Me Because he said that we Just weren't right for each other. Well it's been sometime Now and I was starting to be okay with out him in my life. Until he called me saying stuff like how he still Loves Me and he wants to be friends with benefits until we can go back into a relationship. I want to say yes but it would be the third time I'm taking him back. So Now I'm Wondering why does he keep Leaving me To come back again ? Is it That he still Loves Me Or Is He Just Using Me ?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 Do you really not know the answer to this one? Or you just want a reassurance that he loves you? Why do you think he keeps coming back to you? Because you're the most convenient thing that ever happened to him. He knows you're an option thats always open and after he's had his fun elsewhere and he's bored, he can come to you and have a good time.
Put your foot down once and for all and put an end to this nonsense.This man is a bit of garbage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): Why not? you're a convenient piece of ass for him to have while he goes off and finds someone for a more meaningful relationship.
That's all OP, if I sound harsh and insensitive by only saying those things, then what does that make the guy who's actually doing those things?
Either stay being his sex puppet listening to his lies and allowing him to use you, or don't. That's it really.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 May 2011):
 Well you keep taking him back, so what does he have to loose by dumping you every time he thinks the grass is greener elsewhere?
Yes, I do think he is using you, but.. YOU are letting him.
FWB is not a very healthy situation for anyone who actually have feeling for the other person. Like you have for him.
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