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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:i am married and my friend is married too. my instinct tells me he likes me but sometimes he totally ignores me. All i really want is his friendship. He seems more intimate when we text and shies away from me or is more formal, when we see each other in person. Our children are friends and he's been to my place and i've been to his - with the children. He has been a perfect gentleman and we have never mentioned the texts.I asked him, by text, if he was ok with us communicating like this. He said it was a bit weird, but every now and then was ok. Now, suddently, he is not answering my texts. He was still saying hi to me the other day, so i don't know what to think.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (20 September 2008):
 He's ignoring you because he's a married man and he sense you want more than a friendship.
You say that's all you want, but if that was true, then you wouldn't be here posting this question and caring what he thinks. I have a haunch that you have a crush on this man and want something more to develop. You are married, and you should be worrying about why you are distant from your husband to have this inappropiate relationship with this married man. If he's not replying it's because he probably scared off by you cause you're coming on too strong. That's just my guess.
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