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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was dating a guy for about 6 months. Recently, he broke up with me. I was pretty confused and hurt. We had a pretty healthy relationship, great sex, and a great connection. He broke up with me the day before he moved a couple of towns away to "The City". He used terms like "I need time," "maybe one day we'll gravitate back towards each other," and "I wish I could have met you in a year." I guess there were warning signs that the relationship was going sour, but I didn't notice them because I assumed things were going well. He never said I love you, and he never really introduced me to any of his friends. We both knew each others family, and 2 days before he broke up with me he went to dinner with my family. Anyways, he said I could come say hi to him if I were ever in the city, and that we would see each other/remain friends. Well, that was a week ago. Since then, he has deleted me from facebook (our only communication), and hasn't tried contacting me, except for an email which, I emailed back, and got no response. I am a few years younger than him and I know I haven't had as many relationships as him. I'm trying to play it cool, and not contact him/move on. I'm just hurt. I feel like we may never talk again, and I don't want that. If anything, I would at least like to be friends. I'm a fun, cute, and pretty rational girl. I just don't understand the logic behind anything he is doing. Any input?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 April 2010):
He's moved on. This isn't your fault. He's just moved on. Now you need to as well.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 He probably found someone better and lost interest in you.It is not your fault.
Accept the reality and close this chapter in your life.
Begin a new chapter.....
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