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*inkerbelechik
writes:ok, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and i am only 18 we have a WONDERFUL relationship for the most part, when we're together were so happy and are inseparable, until he's with his friends. ill call him and he'll be extremely rude and hangup on me or just treat me like im "just another girl" he likes to show off in front of them and make them think that "i'm his bitch" that he can treat me however he feels like, and i have to take and deal with it.i just get so upset and i dont understand why he does it because when he's with me he apologizes for how he acted and this happens every single time for he past 2 years.and its not only that he has hit me only once though, a slap across the face and told me i deserved it and although that should be enough to end what we have, i feel its impossible to end it with him i love him so much and we talk about getting married and having children all the time.he's leaving for boot camp in june and im hoping that will be his turning point for him to finally grow up, for real this time and set his priorities straight. so what i wanna know is why he does these things to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 wow! that is shocking you really do not deserve this at all!he's going to a boot camp that won't do anything he can tell you as many times as you want to hear it that he has changed this that and the other but the bottom line is he won't have.not one bit.he may think to himself that he has and beleive it himself but he won't.you deserve a billions time better than that!trust me!you need to get out of there and you say he has hit you ONLY once but who knows how many more times he could do it.and would you really want to bring kids up in the type of environment where their daddy maybe hit their mommy or where their daddy treats their mommy like rubbish and thinks it's ok to just apologize behind closed doors?your future is what's important and don't make the mistake by taking him on through your future because he will haunt you.you need to release yourself from this like prison cell before it get's any worse.you're better off finding someone else who treats you like a princess at home but also with friends.Hope this helps hun.Chin up.
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reader, cutiepye +, writes (7 April 2009):
 If he doesn't stop this you should get out of this relationship or else be miserable and treated like crap forever! You deserve to be happy he is totally disrespecting you and messing up your head and it will take years to get over the abuse verbal and physical. I know your in love but yes there is someone out there you will love more and who will treat you like you should be. Don't waist anymore of your life with a jerk!!! Please.
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