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*ooncrater
writes: First, let me explain the situation. A little over a month ago I was introduced to a girl by a friend of mine at a monthly street festival. 4 of us spent the evening together and had an overall great time. As the night progressed this girl became more and more attractive to me the more I learned about her. When we went to drop her off I was tempted to ask her for her # but then decided it was too soon for that and would get it from her the next time I saw her (still kicking myself for that). Anyways the next couple days she was all I could think about so told my female friend that we needed to hangout with her soon since that was the only way of getting in contact with her. My female friend was slow to say the least about trying to line anything up. Then just this past weekend the monthly street festival was going on and my friend found out that this girl was going to be down there too and I had already had plans to go there myself. my friend asked the girl if she wanted my number so we could meet up and the girl said yes(hopefully a good sign). She texts me the evening of the festival and asks if im going. I say yes and ask if has a group going and she never replies. That kinda bummed me out. So my question is how should I get in contact with this girl again? I dont wanna seem like im hunting her down. And since ive only really hung out with her one time I feel weird just texting her or calling her out of the blue. I at least wanna get to know this girl better. Any help if appreciated.
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reader, mooncrater +, writes (8 April 2009):
mooncrater is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the input. I think i'm gonna have a party at my house next weekend just as an excuse to invite her over. And hopefully ill be able to spend most the evening with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): And just to add to what satindesire said, no girl will ever be angry or offended that you asked her out. Even if she's not interested, unless she's completely egomaniacal, she'll still be flattered. So you shouldn't worry about what they'll think! They'll be happy you called.
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