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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've known him for years and we've started talking again. He used to always act like this but he's gotten better at talking to me and not acting childish. He always is really flirty and everything over text but when we see each other out in person he acts really odd. I will be with some friends and he is sort of rude and really shy, and even makes fun of me. He'll never come over and talk to me but will hang around in the same room as me. And then, after he's seen me he will apologise for acting the way he does, if I question him or not. He once told me that when his feelings are involved, he sometimes acts weird
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2015): He's weird, and immature. You're wasting your time on that type of guy; because he needs a device to express himself. He doesn't know how to interact person to person. You apparently aren't charmed by the weirdness; so find yourself a guy you can enjoy under different circumstance, and you can understand.
He's not equipped to offer you a sensible and fun courtship. You're trying to make sense of his behavior, when it makes no sense. You're out of his league. Don't date out of pity or trying to give him a chance. That's tantamount to believing you can change him. If he isn't what you're looking for already; he's a bad match.
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