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male
age
30-35,
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writes:During Easter vacation I visited a girl with my cousin who happens to be in the same school with him and when I saw this girl she was damn cute . it happened we had little chat about academics to be precise, I saw she was so intelligent which immediately captured my interest in her. after our chat she accompanied us to our home getting acquainted also with our parents. We had really nice time with her . I had the urge to ask for her number but I thought it was a little bit too early for that. when I was alone with my cousin I told him I was interested in this girl I told him if he could give me her number for me call at my will he was positive about that but later on he said it's good he seeks her permission before doing that which I concurred with him. three days later he called me on phone telling me the girl accepted wholeheartedly for her number to be given to me went on by saying why I didn't ask her when we met . my cousin and I paid her a visit few days later. she welcomed us wholeheartedly again. later on she sat by my side asking why I didn't ask for her number myself when we met initially, I was dumbfounded by the question but I responded it was just a first visit and she doesn't know me yet then. She understood my response and we had little nice chat again before parting ways. I later paid her a visit myself and we had really nice time sharing life experiences but didn't tell her my feelings towards her. our vacation came to an end and we all went back to our various schools. I started calling her again on phone having nice chats from time to time. a day came I decided to voice out my feelings. she felt surprised and told me why I didn't tell her when we met, I told her it was too sudden for me to tell her then. she started feeling reluctant towards what my feelings for her but that notwithstanding I kept up with my stand like sending her sweet text messages which she has unreplied. I then decided to stop texting and calling her. after about two weeks she called asking me why I haven't being calling whether am having problems with her I said no that I have been busy scheduled for a while. she asked me whether am sure with my response I said yes. from then I started calling her on days intervals. we've been communicating well about ourselves, academics, and other social activities and even sometimes advising me on my academics. I even told my birthday and she told me has. on Sundays she'll ask if I went to church and if I didn't she'll ask me not to relent because she is also a religious type. I decided to give her a test not to call her a week to my birthday to see if am in her thoughts, surprisingly on earliest hour on my birthday she sent a sweet text to me for it was so lovely. I called to show appreciation she said it is necessary for her to do that. that nevertheless wasn't the end of my test for I told her about my exams earlier on which was few days after my birthday. I didn't call her few days to that day, she sent a success text which elated me dearly to really appreciate this girl. please dear friends, magnificent agony aunts,I sought for your candid advice and opinion to actually know if this girl will really want to date or even be my lover. thanks for your generosity so far . your candid advise and opinions is needed at uttermost level thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2015): Only she can answer your question, and you shouldn't be reluctant to ask; as she herself has reminded you time and time again.
She has been consistent about contact, she is kind to you, she has lovely chats with you, and she was happy to offer you her number from the very start. As far as being your lover or being in a committed-relationship; only time will tell.
I do recommend that you maintain contact; and try to actually visit her when time allows. You have behaved like a true gentlemen; and you have cautiously withheld your feelings. She has positively responded every time. So it is safe to say you may have a good chance. Pursue it.
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