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writes:Hey there. I recently wrote here about my bf, who told me not to talk to him without a reason. After few weeks, I stopped trying to contact him. And today he finally spoke to me. I was happy at first, that things may get back to normal. Yet he did something unexpected - accused me of cheating! I never did that, and told him numerous times that he's the only one. After several hours of arguing, he said that he was... joking. I was shocked again. And then he acted like nothing ever happened - sweet and kind. I feel confused, insecure and I think of what should i do with this bullshit. Why does he act like crazy? I am a very loyal and honest person, and I dont play games. I love this guy , but I want to be treated seriously.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (10 August 2011):
 Daniel is right in his response to you.
As for the anonymous poster: teasing is one thing and has its place, but in this case - especially if the communication was on the phone - he had no business saying what he did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): don't be so serious. that's why he like teasing u. it is good to tease a person easy get annoyed.
i'm like your bf. i'm also like teasing my bf. it made me smile. then when his angry i say sorry.
your relationship like ours.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (10 August 2011):
 How old is this guy? Well in all actuality girls really do mature faster than guys (sorry guys- and I know, I'm one too)...even in relationships. So it's no surprise that he's acting this way.
The games that he's playing are really unnecessary...and it's truly affecting your emotions. So you should seriously have a talk with him- and tell him how he's making you feel. Be honest and tell him that you want to be taken seriously. If he doesn't listen or continue to play games, then he doesn't value your opinions or the relationship.
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