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writes:My husband never wants to have sex - while we were dating he said he wanted to "wait until we got married". We've had sex maybe 5 or 6 times since we did get married.Meanwhile he tells me a story about his son putting a cat in the microwave and turning it on.The son is grown, now, no girlfriend, never been married - he's very withdrawn and seems depressed or angry all the time. Along with the no-sex situation my husband seems very interested in the show "to Catch a Predator".Why, I don't know. I get the feeling that he did something to his son. I know the boy hates me (I'm his stepmother) and I wonder if he thinks I know something about his Dad. Am I crazy?
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (10 August 2011):
 You have given us a limited amount of information, so I cannot say anything with certainty. Is it strange for a man to hold off sex? Yes. What is his reason for lacking sexual interest with you? Have you asked him? If not, I suggest you have an adult conversation. There could be so many factors from lack of sexual attraction, low sex drive, cheating scenarios, fetishes, religious inhibitions and as you hinted at pedophilia.
As far as the show is concerned, I know a lot of people, who watch and love that show, both women and men. Then again, I am not around your husband, so I don't know what kind of vibes and demeanor you see on a daily basis. If you have a feeling or suspicion that he might be a pedophile and that he mistreated his son, why don't you talk to either one of them, or run for the hills? You seem very assuming, and passive. Honestly, you all seem weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): My ex claimed to not believe in premarital sex either. Turned out the only way a woman can turn him on was for me to dress like a slut. And he used to go to brothels, all the while claiming to be religious. When a man refuses sex, something is wrong. Maybe he's getting tips from that show so he doesn't get caught. Sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): I wouldn't wanna be with people that put cats in mirowaves. That's sick and disgusting. He and his son should see a doctor.
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