A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,please give some advice. regarding my relationship with my bf .I found him via chatting on the net.so lil by lil we made a relaiontnship and now its almst 4yrs and we are planning to marry as well.But i really dont feel love from him and i dont feel much about him.From the beginning i didnt really feel enthusiastic.didnt feel we were so close. most of the time really didnt care about him and still i felt he is not that guy most of the time.but he is a very good person i have ever met still i just cant understand whats the reason. We both just planning our future but we both know theres no big love between us.but we just moving ahead.so we both dont have good times.we fight for everything.i dont wanna leave him but dont feel anything.i wanna know why i feel like this?what went wrong from the begining?why he is staying with me when he also feels the same even?coz we both have told each other that we should stop this. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Sensible Sam  +, writes (27 January 2011):
You're staying together because it is convenient and that way you both don't have to start over on the relationship scale, but my advice is to get out and do it quickly otherwise you're both going to procrastinate about it till the cows come home. If you both feel the same way then cut all ties and get gone....you can do it. I dont doubt that your an independant strong person, I feel this as you met via the net so therefore you must be willing to take risks and this will be one of the biggest you'll have to do, but it will be worth it in the end!!!! Hope it helps xx
|
