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writes: Will someone please tell me why men or people in general curse during sex? When guys do it, it makes me feel like I'm hurting them or something. I've never felt the need to yell expletives during the moment...it's something I have trouble relating to.Open ended answers welcome. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cupid_or_Stupid  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 My boyfriend doesn't curse but I do and he HATES it. I don't even know I'm doing it until I've actually done it either. I just let go and it's what slips out. It also depends if they curse in natural converstation too I guess :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ male anonymous reader:
I actually posed the question to understand it and don't know how to relate to it at times.
I don't feel bad about it...not sure where you got that idea.
Do you feel bad about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Some of us just like to get dirty with our verbalizations while we're getting it on... The feelings your having are about yourself, not him or his actions. You need to look into yourself and see why dirty talk is making you feel bad about yourself.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 I don't get it either, I'm not a screamer or "yeller", but I DO know how to have a great time without trying to sound like a bad porn.
Everyone is different, for some it's yelling or screaming or grunting or howling..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ sugarbuns
I know how to let go and I enjoy sex very much...I'm just not a screamer and I don't really talk beyond saying what I like or what feels good.
I don't even really mind it in general, it can just be distracting when someone yells in your ear at point blank range.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): I don't know about anyone else, but I don't have control of what comes out of my mouth at that point.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Yes. Passion often yields incomprensable expressions, and swearing is just another form of verbal expression, like "Oh God, Oh god!".....this may come out sounding abrupt, but I suspect you've never really "let go" in bed. Don't be so reserved. Get in touch with your own sexual feelings without feeling self conscious or stifled. Just let things flow out of your mouth. It's incredibly liberating.
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