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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why do my friends do this? i think is so wrong what they do.? Most of my friends go out dinner, shopping with guys they don't even like.They go cos they like the attention and free stuff. and talks about the guy really badly.When I say Is wrong cos the guy could find someone they really like and might like them too, my friends thinks am jealous and they are just having fun.When it comes to sex, I won't even kiss a guy unless we're in a relationship and in love.My friends say am too serious and should just have fun. They think am weird. But I don't think so.Thanks..x
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reader, KittieS +, writes (17 September 2011):
 Unfortunately some people are just like that, some grow out if it some dont
You sound like a nice girl, stick with your morals and values - look at how and what you know about how your friends treat guys and watch for the same signs with guys you date.
Your find someone fabulous one day I'm sure about it - but keep your wits about you, nice girls can sometimes be too eager to believe the frogs they kiss are going to prince charming (I know, been there done that)
Take care
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 It comes down to values and morals, it honestly sounds like your "friends" have neither.
If they wish to prostitute themselves for "stuff", well that is on them. Personally, I find it rather nasty.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 September 2011):
They will all come to regret their actions when all the decent guys realize what they are. Nothing like this lasts. Young men can be stupid at times and they'll ignore glaring signs that they are being used (same can happen to women too). But as young, good men mature, they come to realize that there are better women out there, just like you.
You just stick to what you believe. You'll have your pick of the decent guys. Your a friends, alas, will wind up with users and losers because no one else will want them.
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