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Why do I want what I can't have?

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Question - (16 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi, ummm well basically my question is, why do i always want someone i cant have mainly happening when she already has a boyfriend, i think about it all the time and this problem is occuring now and quite honestly its killing me because im one of those kind of people who enjoy being in a relationship and knowing that i mean more to someone than just a friend. If you could help then id greatly appretiate it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

it's human nature to want what we can't have. I understand where you're coming from. i'm sorry. :( being single gets old really fast. and it just sucks. i remember i had always wanted this guy. but he was always with someone else, and when i ignored him, he'd talk to me, and i'd just want him more. then when i'd try to talk to him later, and he'd ignore me, it drove me crazy. but then I took a step back, and I eventually relized, that he really wasn't what I wanted. and that I only wanted him because I knew I couldn't have him. this may not be the same for you, but if it is, then maybe you should start going after someone who you REALLY want for all the right reasons.

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A female reader, iAMnotYou United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

iAMnotYou agony auntI know exactly how you feel buddy! if its not that there dating its that they dont like ya back. it sucks being single! hang in there man! your gonna meet a girl thats gonna drive you crazy everytime you look at a her a girl who just has the biggest personality and that will like you and think of you as more then a friend as someone she can count on and that you can count on her back. it'll happen one day :)

~iAMnotYou

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