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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I lost confused. Ive been with this man four years we have a two year old so. He lives 49 miles away as he cant afford to move here as he wont leave his job. He keeps leaving every time there is a problem, he causes a rows with me he used to call me all the names under the sun now its just exscues from me too my eldest sone whos not his, at first it was a week but each time its getting longer but then always wants me back and never complately cuts me off he left his home when i had our son which he had on his own for 10 years, He dosent want to live here as its far away from his job and i cant seem to get a move so he gos too his mums house. I keep taking the bate because im still in love with him. But because he says and tells he mates and family he loves me i dont give up....I'm 37 and i feel im acting like a bloody teenanger. Keep questioning why i cant let go of him when hes never here for me, I wish i had friends to help me. Its not as if i dont like myself i know im not ugly and i know im caring loving affectionate. So why do i let him back in my life each time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): The most significant part of what you said, to me, is that you wish you had friends. If you only have him in your life then you will be very dependent on him and he will have more power than if you had alternative people to turn to. So work on having more friends.
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