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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:We had been dating almost a year before we suddenly broke up one day. It had been months since we talked again, but eventually we became friends again and even started to act more and more like a couple everyday, when suddenly, out of the blue, he just started to ignore me again. It really hurt my feelings. We would go days without speaking, and then he would always come up with a good excuse as to why he had been avoiding me, but after about the sixth of seventh time, I was starting to get a little fed up. It was the day before I went out of town for a family reunion, where I wouldn't have phone service for the whole week I would be gone, and I didn't want him thinking I was mad at him or ignoring him, so I called and told him that I was tired of being ignored and all I wanted was to hear from him one more time before I left. He didn't answer, so I had to leave a voicemail, and then I left for the reunion. When I came back, I had a text from him that said he was sick of me demoralizing him all the time and he was beginning to wonder why he ever loved me in the first place. It made me feel terrible, so I tried calling him to apologize... And I was told that the number wasn't valid. I asked my friends if he had talked to him, and they all said no, and tried to call him as well when I told him what happened when I called him and they all said the same thing happened to them. Its been two weeks now, and I haven't heard from him at all (he lives in a different state), and I think that he may have changed his number to avoid me-- we had been arguing a lot ever since we broke up. He recently turned 18, so it wouldn't be very hard for him to change his number, but I just don't understand. Only days before I left he had been telling me how much he loved me and wished we could get back together, and then he tells me I demoralize him (which really confused me, since I have no idea how I do that) and next thing I know, he just up and leaves..... I don't know what to do. It breaks my heart to think that I am the reason that he felt the need to change his number And cut off all contact he had with me and my friends (one of my friends he would always call his sister, and he even stopped talking to her). I keep hoping that one day he will call me from some random number and apologize for not telling me, but I don't want to get my hopes up. Do you think I will ever hear from him again?
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (25 September 2011):
 Dont worry about it,ignore it,dont worry about him period.just by the way your acting and worring here,it shows not only you are desperate but that you have not moved on at all. If he cared for you he wouldn't put you through this. the only reason he talked to you after breaking it off is either because he was lonely,bored or just wanted to see how you would react. I think he got sick of you,and you honestly sound a little needy. The last thing you should do is call him non stop to tell him that your living for a week when he hasnt talked to you before that and you did that. You just wanted to see his reaction and see if he would care,and guess what him changing his number and telling you he regreted you shows he doesnt give two f's about you. Honestly im sorry for being mean on here but its the truth, i really hope you find someone that DESERVES your love and doesnt mess with it. Good Luck.
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