A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: finally found decent boyfriend who is everything i want..so why do i keep trying to cause conflict between us for no reason? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (24 October 2007):
The way he will see it is that you may be wanting to get rid of him. If he picks up on it he will eventually leave and find someone who is easier to get on with. If you do not want this to happen then just stop doing this to him. Try edifying him, let himn know how much you love him and try a more positive approach altogether.
If you have differances do not make a big thing about them but make light of them so they seem less important.
Concerntrate on what you have and stop trying to throw it away if it is this good.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): You need to give some more information. No one can answer your question.
...............................
A
female
reader, Kat18 +, writes (23 October 2007):
hhmm good question. I used to do the same i think i did it cause i liked the closeness after. Sometimes if i didnt really feel like he loved me i'd get in a strop over something and by the end of the arguement i'd feel all loved and secure again.
could this be why? or maybe your bored in your relationship and trying to liven it up a bit?
...............................
|