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writes:I never get in the mood to have sex with my husband. We have only been married about 1 1/2 months. We were friends for a long time. I used to be in the mood every night, the last time I was pregnant. This pregnancy, I never want to. However I have sex dreams quite often and I have orgasm in my sleep, or I wake up and am very in the mood and so I masterbate b/c he's at work. Why is this happening?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): We all have dreams and they never tally up with anything really. I wouldnt put any real stead by dreams. You probably need to change your technique when it comes to bedtime. Does he work shift? Are you in bed while he is at work? This can often be a crippling situation. When you are in the mood he isnt there. I know what you mean. Try and have some special time together. Have a lovely long sensuous bath together. Why not give him a massage. Both decide not to have sex and just massage each other, i bet by the time you have finished you will want to pounce on him. If you still feel this way then maybe it is a libido thing with you and a trip to the doctors could help.
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reader, rcn +, writes (23 October 2007):
 You need to experiment more with the hubby. Tell him what you want in bed to fill your dreams.
The dreams won't stop. We all have a dream like love life, but why not live some of them out. What's happening is it's more exciting for you to dream than what you're really getting. Which one would you choose, the best or not? I'd talk to him about trying some other things, and you tell him what to do with you in bed.
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