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writes:A few times now, I seem to lose my erection just before entering my girlfriend's vagina. Why is this? During foreplay it seems fine. After I lose my erection I can't get it up again. We use a missionary position. Why do I keep losing my erection just before intercourse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): I think its probably nerves if youve only just started to have sex or youre in a new relationship. Maybe just slow down, calm down and enjoy the moment. Im sure she would understand if you need to adapt so you enjoy it more and to be honest, if my boyfriend had this trouble i would want to make changes so we both can enjoy the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Original poster here. Thanks for the help everyone. I can relate to anxiety, but how do I overcome this anxiety or performance anxiety?
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 It is called performance anxiety.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): You are probably nervous about doing it and as this has happened before you worry it will happen again which causes it to happen, just relax and take things slow
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): This happened with me and my boyfriend when we first started sleeping together, it was because I was so nervoud he ended up getting nervous. He evantually went to the doctors, which i'd encourage you to do. They gave him tablets to help his labido and afterwards he didn't need them, he only needed them to bring his confidene back up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Almost certain it is performance anxiety or stress.
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