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writes:So I have this friend. For the sake of this question I'll call her 'Mary'. We're reeeeeeally close.We've been really close friends. And then about a fortnight ago, I realized I kinda had feelings for her, and another friend of mine had told me Mary had thought I was really decent guy. So... at her urging, I told Mary how I felt... Obviously she was... surprised... happy though... but really unsure, as she kinda didn't want to ruin what we already had, which I understood completely seeing as we've known eachother for about 6 years.But still the feelings lingered... and then last weekend, she was house-sitting, and she had a guy friend of hers over, who was getting a little too touchy feely for his own good. Meanwhile, the power went out at my house, so she called me and suggested I come I come over, not just to keep her company but because her guy friend was beginning to creep her a tad out. Anyways, had lots of fun. Had something to drink. Wasn't drunk or anything. We reeeeeally had fun in eachother's company and for laughs tried to teach eachother ballroom dancing. Eventually, we decided we were exhausted, and wanted to go to bed. Now Mary and I had shared a bed before, nothing had happened, we'd usually have great heart to heart conversations before going to sleep. However this time... she asked for a cuddle... we ended up kissing... and next second... we're having sex 0_0.After we've finished, we were both smiling, and laughing. Both feeling obviously very happy with ourselves... and then she apologized... and said she was feeling a little confused about what we were, and was wondering if she was leading me on. I told her not to worry about it for now, to enjoy what was, so we did. And we fell asleep.Since then... we've both been trying to process what happened... haven't really been talking to eachother much cause of University and work and such... What I want to know... from what you've heard is... does she like me? Or was that just meaningless sex. It meant something to me. What did it mean to her? Does she like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Well, it is beyond obvious that she likes you. The big question here is does she love you. I think there is a pretty good chance she has feelings for you too. Now after you have successfully "ruined" your friendship, there is no reason for you two not to try and have a relationship. Best of luck!
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