A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok so I keep havin dreams about my boyfriends ex we Were brokin up for a couple years ( we also have two kids) and they were together for like a yr but they broke up and we got back together now i keep having dreams about her some dreams shes nice some shes trying to make out with my boyfriend idk wat do to anymore help me
View related questions:
broke up, got back together Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Basschick +, writes (2 June 2012):
Dreams are often our subconscious working overtime; things we think about during the way; worry about or fear. There's not much you can do to control what your brain does while you sleep but you can while you are awake. If you spend alot of time thinking about her it could be causing these dreams. Your best defense is positive thinking. If you focus on making your relationship fun and positive the dreams will sort of go away by themselves as your fears begin to diminish. It's natural to sort of worry that she might swope back in and woo him back into her arms but that is highly unlikely. The more you come to terms with the positive things your relationship has to offer both of you, the less you will dream about her. Good luck.
|