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writes:There is one of my male friends who is in love with me. Whenever I'm not with him I miss him to the extreme, I feel like I love him whenever he's far from me but whenever I'm with him I don't feel the same. Why do I get this feeling? Am I in love with him, or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod  +, writes (28 October 2009):
 No. I don't think you're in love with him. I agree with the first post. It sounds like you're in love with the idea of him. You know that he really likes you so you crave his company as it might make you feel better when you're not with him. But when you are with him, it's not the same. He might not match up to the idea you have of him. I think you just like the thought that someone likes you. Who wouldn't?
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reader, openmind  +, writes (28 October 2009):
No i dont think you are in love with him. I have been in a similar situation. It is really cool and flattering to know that someone is in love with you or really likes you, you may even fool yourself into thinking you feel the same when you have time to dwell on it when he isnt around. However the fact that feelings change when he is near is proof that you really arent having the same feelings for him. I think what you have here is a feeling of close friendship toward the guy and i reccomend letting it stay that way because being intimate with him espically if you dont love him like he loves you could really mess things up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): Might be you are in love with the "idea" of him, and not the actual person.
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