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male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes: So I have a male cousin. I know, it's already starting off bad.Today was my 16th bday and he's 14. I never though this way about him before, and I'm not gay. But he's been living with us for about 2 years now. I have a foot fetish as well, and I can't believe someone can have such amazing feet like his. It's so hard not to do something when that feeling comes around.. I've never really thought he was good looking until today. I honestly can't explain but we were coming home and I was just thinking about him so much. I just want to kiss him. Ughh. I don't want this to interfere with our relationship already. And idk how to stop these feelings. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2017): Hey!
The best thing to do would be not to act on it as it will cause problems within your family, you could also scare him as he is family and things will just get awkward!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (31 August 2016):
The truth is you are getting to an age where hormones are high and you are dealing with sexual thoughts and experimenting and wondering. So this thing with your cousin well it does not mean that you are gay, you are just thinking about him in a way that you probably shouldn't be. But it is harmless enough if you do not act on it. You know your boundaries and stick to them.
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