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*hortiee
writes:ok so i like this guy... he and his gurlfriend broke up today... blah blah blah... anyway... everytime i close my eyes i picture me laying on his chest... or him and me makeing out... weird i know... and i always! picture me telling him i got raped? its really weird b/c thats never happened to me and i know its a VERY serious matter... but idk wat to do,.. during class i have to sit on my hands and bite my lip when he gets in my face when hes talking to me so i dont man handel him and start kissing him... i keep getting these urges to like hug him and stuff and hes super nice adn i just cant keep my thoughts to myself when im around him... its really weird... i always want to just i dont even know... i always picture me walking past him in the hall then pushing him against a locker and starting to make out with him,....or me and him layign in a field together looking at the stars and makeing out... am i crazy?!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 August 2008):
 Well, he sounds sensible enough. I suggest that you don't escalate the drama any more and just play it very low key and stay calm. If you over-react to people, they will know that they've hit a nerve and will keep on teasing you about it.
If he's as smart as he sounds, he'll figure out you like him soon enough. The good news is that you can get to know him a little better and be his friend! I think that's great.
Good luck.
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reader, shortiee +, writes (28 August 2008):
shortiee is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok... so today his ex started a bunch a crap about me! it was terrible..like during 4th period i said anna come sit ehre adn then alex *the ex* said no anna come sit with me! and they dont even know eachother! and the guy i liek was sitting with me and alex kept whispering to me do u like him adn i said no and she said thats not what the rumors are saying and her friends laughed at me... so now theres a rumor i like him... and during 5th period it was only me and him in the room and i said i cant handel ur ex! she wont leave me alone! and he said im sry she dragged u into this... and stuff so i was kidna happy... and then like me adn him are good friends adn during a fire drill i was coughing really bad going outside and he was like rubbing my back which made me smile and actually i stopped coughing... but during 5th period she sent him a text saying you like katie? you were just useing me! and he showed it to me and then he showed me what he replied adn it was just leave her alone shes not involved in your crazy drama and stuff so i was happy.... but still now everyone knows i liek him (but him) and ugh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): ive just been going through that i met this boy 4 yrs ago and i have had the biggest crush on him and everytime he would get close to my face if we were having a pretend fight i was so tempted to kiss him i used to look at him and think we were together. then one day i kept thinking about him so much we were at the beach and i just looked into his eyes and i said i love you out loud and he said i love you to i was gobsmacked and then i said are you joking or being serious and he said serious and kissed me. and now were going out 4 yrs on.
I dont think your crazy your just in love with him its normal you cant help it.
Tell him how you feel just like i did. he might feel the same.
Good Luck Babez X
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 August 2008):
Hi, I think that having fantasies is perfectly normal for girls your age, and even when you get older. Right now, your body is changing and your hormones are fluctuating like crazy, and I expect this is all part of the whole picture. Just remember that fantasy is fantasy and may have nothing to do with real life.
I think you have a crush on this guy and the fantasies are your mind's way of bringing the two of you together. They sound like they are fun and delicious to think about, so I wouldn't worry about them. Just don't get them confused with reality, and try to stay calm when you do talk to him!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): Well it sounds to me like you're very infatuated with this guy. Sometimes there's some chemistry that you just can't seem to get your head around...but then again if you could explain why you liked him I'm sure it wouldn't be quite as much fun. As for some of your more odd fantasies, everyone reacts differently to this kind of inexplicable attraction. I think that you should tell him how you feel. This way you'll either be able to finally act on these feelings, or if he doesn't like you then you'll be able to try and start putting these feelings behind you. Either way you're stuck in limbo until you talk to him about it. My gf and me first met in a class we were both in. The day after we talked for the first time she asked me if I wanted to do something. We went on a date and I kissed her. I was so nervous but it was the best kiss of my life and I've been incredibly in love with her since. In order to get the reward you need to take the risk. Fantasizing is normal, the details are entirely based on you and how your mind works. You're not crazy, you are very infatuated. Go for it, you've got nothing to lose.
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