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36-40,
anonymous
writes:why do i feel empty inside?thers a guy at work that i really really like and he said he like me too but is not ready for a relationship at the moment which i am really cool about coz id rather he was honest with me than not! when it first came out about me liking him so much (someone i thought i could trust let me down, i wasnt ready for him to find out) we had a really big chat and sorted things out then we used to text each other all the time he was the first person to text me in the morning and the last person to text me at night, we had a really good night out where we ended up kissing but even after tht we were still cool with each other and had a chat about wer we stood which was pretty much still frends (just frends tht knew we had feelings for each other we couldnt act on!) and the texting kept up like it was before!However the texting has slowly started to fizzle out, we dnt txt as much now, but when in work he still talks to me, he says things that idicate he still has feelings for me, he looks at me with eyes that tell me he likes me and it is just soo frustrating coz he keeps saying he doesnt want a relationship but i can live with that!There is just one thing bothering me since this all happend! at first i was just soo sooo happy people wer commenting about how happy i seemed! but now i get the feeling of emptiness inside- why do i feel like this wen i knew from the beginning he didnt want a relationship? why am i stupid enough to let the whole thing effect me in such a way after all he is just a guy frm work! I hate the fact i like him sooo much coz the way i feel about him i would happily wait for him for the rest of my life and im only 21 which i know is really sad and pathetic but i just cant help it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): I don't think relationships are about when you're ready. Love doesn't work that way. He either wants you bad enough, or he doesn't.
Tell him that you care about him, but that this is too hard on you. He can either be ready for a relationship, or he can just be some guy in your life, but nothing more than a friend.
It's not fair for him to string you along like this.
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