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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi there. i love my boyfriend alot. i trust him and we have known each other for a long time. the thing is i'm just not wanting to kiss him. i'm fine with him hugging me really tightly and feeling me up but not kissing. it just feels so wrong. i dont know why?
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reader, Babygurl81296  +, writes (5 March 2011):
Well i had the same problem with my last boyfriend. We had been dating for over a year and never kissed or really tightly hugged, it was still in the akward side hug stage. Then i met another guy (my current boyfriend) we knew each other for a week, he asked me out, and we kissed a week after he asked me out. To me it seems like hes just nkt the right one. I felt the same way about my ex. I thought he was my soulmate and we were meant for each other and everything, but i never found out what it really was until i met my boyfriend now.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 March 2011):
 How long have you been going out? Is it the idea of kissing him in particular or any guy that grosses you out? Do you feel like it would be like kissing your brother, like, does it turn you off? I'd say you're either not ready to go that next level, if it's early on in the relationship, or in general you're not ready to kiss because you're young and it's hard to know what to do and you don't want it to be awkward. but it could be something more serious, like you're not attracted to him. Can you think more about why it would be wrong, especially when kissing is supposed to be a sign of affection?
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