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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have this gf with whom I always liked but she rejected me back than (she didn't want to get into a relationship, when she just ended a messy one). Still, we knew each other (this was years ago, way before I even tried to make a move on her) when she slept with this douchebag I know. The douchebag then told me about this, telling me that she was not worth it and stuff, but he would do her again if he had drunk enough and stuff like that. I know she had feelings for him at that time and probably wanted to be with him but he just wanted to screw her.After I made a move on her and she said no, because she was depressed about a break-up, the douchebag got to know this and he asked me if I could screw her. I said no, he then said I am lame.I know they slept again during this fall one more time.So then I I won't put more effort in this, I didn't aske her out anymore, years passed, we had other partners and I almost forgot that she even existed, but this year we met again, started talking more and more and because we were both single and ready to start a relationship, we got together eventually.She still liked this bad-mouthed guy though, as a friend and I agreed once or twice that we meet him in company, but then I couldn't stand it and told her what he said about her years ago. Since then, she doesn't even want to see him.I know it is no concern of mine what they did in the past and that she didn't know what he told me (and a bunch of other ppl, I think) about her but still... it makes me sick when I think about this issue. What do I do? She's nice with me, we are in love now and stuff, but I feel that this idiot is laughing at me somewhere, thinking that I couldn't even screw her years ago (which he could) and now I am actually together with this girl she used as a tool.Anoyone with an experience like this?
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Um I don't think hes laughing at you, he probably doesn't even care. I think you should forget about what happend and focus on what you have with her now. Be happy you have her and you know, enjoy the moment. :)
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