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Why do guys treat you nice and then turn around and expect you to do everything?

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Question - (20 February 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

why is it when a guy wants u he'll be nice to you and treat you well then a week through your relationship he expects you to buy everything for him like buss fares, food and stuff he wants and u dont get anything from him. why is it when u say its over they turn all nice again and when you have an arguement with him he tries to put the blame on you. for example the blame i got was that he was going out more that he didnt want to be doing. i tried my best but im fed up running about for him and getting put down all the time. i dont want to be used and messed around. what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2013):

Sadly the media has allowed men to treat women badly by advertising them as objects. They get away with cheating thanks to the Internet/TV and it's trashy material. Until women wise up and stop trying to be perfect by changing themselves and dress and act for respect we will never see any change in men's behaviour. Start talking to your friends and fighting to ban magazines that degrade women in food shops and forcing the TV, Internet and media to change and then men will start to realise they cannot walk all over us like they have been for years!

Dump him! And the next guy you date, check his mobile phone and computer to see exactly what he is getting up to behind your back. Sadly they cannot be trusted because our media encourages cheating.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntNot all guys are like this OP. IF you get with a guy when he’s nice, then when he turns not-nice you leave. Simple as that.

A boy who really likes you will continue to be nice to you after you are his girlfriend. IF he is not, then leave.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2013):

Why? Because we can OP and you let us. You're just our bitches that do what we say and you shut your mouth and do it.

Obviously what I said is complete horseshit, except for you it's kind of true, you are letting him do all this and he only does it because you let him.

If you don't want to be used and messed around then why are you still playing his game?

He only does it because it works, so stop letting it work and dump the fool. Stop letting him walk all over you like this, have some pride and dignity.

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