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writes:why do guys take so long to call back? If they don't call after 3 days dose that mean they lost interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, unwind +, writes (16 April 2010):
He can still be very interested even if he calls you 5 days after getting your number. It doesn't really mean much. You can speculate all you want, it doesn't mean that your speculation is true. I called my gf about 6 days after I got her number, but I was extremely interested in her. I went on a business trip internationally, my first and only. I had really no means of contacting her due to the time difference and stuff. I called her the day after I arrived home and she was OK with it.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Guys take long to do something when they're not interested enough or when you're one of the many girls they're chasing.
Like CaringGuy said, if this is the beginning stages of dating and he takes forever to call, he's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): It could be anything...
1: He's a flirt
2: He's forgotten
3: He's gotten busy
4: His phone is lost/taken away.
Any of those or more could be why!
I wonder the same..^-^ Maybe guys wonder why we don't call them instead of them calling us!xD
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 If a guy asked for my number and showed interest in me, usually he will call the following day if not even later that same day. So if I had to wait for a guy to call me I'd pretty much not think much of him or take him seriously. I mean once he does happen to call I might agree to a date if Im bored, but if he left me waiting I'd most probably say no. Because guys who really are interested wouldn't forget about me and not call.
Why they wait so long? I guess they don't take you that seriously and aren't interested, or maybe they got the phone number of someone more interesting.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 I know lol. I dont get it eitherThey are trying not to look to eager, silly huh
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reader, Sanita  +, writes (15 April 2010):
These are the possible reason guys don't call a girl after 3 days:1. He was just flirting with you.2. It was just a fling.3. He and his girlfriend broke up so he needed someone to fill that gap until she cools off. What does that makes you the 'Rebound.'4. He's married and # three happened. he and his wife broke...5. He's a player.6. He has lost interest in u.7. He has found someone(s) new.Whatever the reason(s) maybe any guy who ignore a girl for three days is a Jerk and doesn't derseve them. There are plenty more fish in the sea so dive hard you'll never know what you'll discover.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 April 2010):
Some guys get busy, or forget, or get too comfortable and need to be reminded. It also depends on how well you know a guy. If you've only been on one date and it takes time, then he's not worth it. If he's actually your boyfriend, then he's a little comfortable and needs a nudge.
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