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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm 21 and I've only had one boyfriend and it lasted for 4 months, barely. He broke up with me and it was because he was pretty much using me to find out if he could get over his first true love. Since then I haven't had a single date. I think I'm approachable, fun, outgoing at times, so what am I doing wrong? I know that I tend to give off a whole "laid back" approach about dating, but I'm pretty sick of being single, when everybody I know is seriously dating somebody or are engaged/getting engaged/married. I almost feel like guys see me as "one of the boys", a chick who's fun to hang out with, but they don't see me as a girl. I know I still have time, because I'm still young, or whatever, but what else can I do? I know I still lack some confidence, but that's just because I'm not totally comfortable with what I look like, but I'm working on it.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Hang out with your girlfriends more often and not the boys, and be a little more cautious around the boys as though your more modest.
That should do the trick then they will chase you.
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