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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have a friend she looks alright and theres me everyone usually says im pretty mostly prettier than my friend,but im a kinda shy type but somtimes when i really want a guys attention i try being myself singing,dancin in the car,lauphing,im not a slutt and try to be mature but all these guys like my friend (even though she messed around with 2 of the guys)no one likes me ,i really dont get it,cuz im sweet WHY DO GUYS CHOOSE MY FRIEND OVER ME??? P.S THE GUYS EVEN LIKE HER OTHER FRIEND WHO REMINDS ME OF ME=BUT THEY STILL DONT LIKE ME
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): you have to swallow your fear of being hugely noticed by everyone in the room, being embarassed having everyone looking at you. just enjoy being who you are. guys love confidence, confident girls are more noticable simply because in a room they are the ones centre dance floor. act confident, when people dance they do it to get noticed not for other reasons so do it in a style that will get you mega noticed, doesn't matter if you make a spectacle of yourself guys love girls who don't care about what other people think, or don't let it get to them. its a good thing that you dress casual not showing alot of flesh leaves nothing for guys to imagine. just relax stop focusing on your friend so much keep comparing yourself , how to make yourself happier. laugh at yourself,you know what they say relationships happen when you least expect them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): I think you are probably lacking confidence and men love confidence. A plain outgoing girl will usually get more male attention than the pretty quiet one only because guys find it hard to talk to pretty girls who are quiet, they feel your out of their league and that you wont want to talk to them, so stop worrying about your friends and just concentrate on being yourself at least if your not trying to hard then when a guy does go for you, he will be attracted to the whole package :)
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