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writes:Ok i dont understand this, and i am guessing someone can clear this up for me. Why can i not get a girlfriend. Ok i have had many girls show intrest and compliment me. But most of them are already with someone or im not attracted to them. There was one who liked me a while back, well i asked her to prom because i liked her. And well she basically from what i hear doesnt like me anymore, like it died or faded. And some people who liked me have shot me down in the past and there friends even sayed they liked me still after i did this. So why did they shoot me down!!!I didnt make a move a while back because i had my mind focused on someone else, my ex, and she hurt me. So why is this happening...
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (27 March 2008):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well i dont think its because im arragent im actually kind of shy to a flaw sometimes. And it has hurt me in the past, but im trying to fix that and i have asked people out and i think im confident when i do so. I dont panic but i do seem a little nervous, like i dont talk bad about myself while asking someone out and im sort of calm and accepting.
And things are getting worse, its 2 days till prom tickets stop being sold and i have asked someone and got shot down, and i asked a few more today mainly because my friends made me. and they shot me down, my friend who isnt confident at all has a girlfriend because he asked her to prom, how do i keep failing, i was not being arrogant when i made the message and im not in life. I was irritated then and i still am. I feel kind of lost because so much is going wrong with my life right now, not just girl problems.
I just want to have a girlfriend who wont screw me over like my ex did, i have actually been thinking that i may ask her but i know that is a horrible idea after all that happend with her. Any ideas????
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reader, macmichael  +, writes (23 March 2008):
WOW this happens to me all the time!!!! Im good looking so i get a lot of offers but just the other week i got chatted up by a girl who later rejeccted me ?? i know in my situation that a girl WILL NEVER SAY YES unless you truely ask confidently and expecting a yes! as i always expect to be rejected i always do and the more you get rejected the more you loose out! so get confident before its too late. Its good that you have had a girl friend that means youve got something to build yourself esteem on something.Its dangerous for people like me because if youve never ever been accepted ever its difficult too see how others will like you.Just remember GIRLS WILL NEVER SAY YES IF YOU ARE UNDERCONFIDENT IN YOUR APROACH!!! Hope this helps.
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reader, macmichael +, writes (23 March 2008):
WOW this happens to me all the time!!!! Im good looking so i get a lot of offers but just the other week i got chatted up by a girl who later rejeccted me ?? i know in my situation that a girl WILL NEVER SAY YES unless you truely ask confidently and expecting a yes! as i always expect to be rejected i always do and the more you get rejected the more you loose out!
so get confident before its too late. Its good that you have had a girl friend that means youve got something to build yourself esteem on something.
Its dangerous for people like me because if youve never ever been accepted ever its difficult too see how others will like you.
Just remember GIRLS WILL NEVER SAY YES IF YOU ARE UNDERCONFIDENT IN YOUR APROACH!!! Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Well unless you're secretly and asshole and aren't telling us... no one will ever know the answer to this question.Even Einstein and Freud couldn't figure out what the f*** women are thinking.Flynn 24
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 It seems simple enough, they like what they see but when they get to know you better something is wrong.
Since you say absolutly nothing about yourselve, I can't even begin to guess what it is.
From the way you talk, I do get the idea you are a little to full of yourselve. You seem to almost assume that girls you aren't even friends with should go out with you because you asked. That attitude alone could be enough of a turn-off.
How do you approach them? You wouldn't be the first guy to ruin it with a lousy opener.
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