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writes:Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners.All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputation.I'd like to know why the girls feel they need to lose their virginity? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): You need to get over it. Women need sex just as much as men do. I'd never want to be with a guy who had your mentality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): So much sympathy for girls & women always getting pressured into sex, so little sympathy for men trying to deal with the emotional hurt of the women's long partner lists later on.
And don't tell me the hurt men are the same ones doing the pressuring either. The most desirable 10% of men are getting 90% of the young & single sex. The other 90% of men don't get the tons of sex OR a low-partners wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response (SatinDesire)!
Ever since I took a Social Science course at my school I have been interested in a woman's view on sex.
1)How does it feel?
2)Is it as painful as they say?
3)Does size really not matter?Cuz I think I'm below average..
4)Which is the quickest way to bring a girl to orgasm?
5)Is it true sex with emotion behind it is better than just sex?
I mean I have so many questions to ask haha.
5 partners isn't a lot.I was thinking around 20.
It's good to know you keep yourself healthy!
Thank you for responding!Not everyone wants to teach a teen virgin about sex everyday haha.I really am just curious to know the females view of sex.It's like picking up a good book I don't want to put it down haha
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Unfortunately, many succumb to peer pressure. In other words, they think that sex is the thing to do, when it would really be much wiser to refrain until they are of advanced maturity. At the time that young women are extremely susceptible to "falling in love" with some "hot," cool or cute guy, the "guy" typically just wants to get some sex. There is usually a vast dichotomy of intent and purpose here - the girls so much want to be loved and accepted, while most guys are simply seeking sexual pleasures.
Nothing much has changed for thousands of years except that girls today are so exceptionally pressured to play along. Even worse, interracial relationships are rampant, very often resulting in single mothers with unwanted and fatherless children. Don't get me wrong, some work out fine. But such relationships are always very challenging, regardless of liberal attitudes, and statistics continue to support that contention.
In my youth some 45 years or so ago, during the 1960s-70s in America, a similar situation of adventurous women was my great pleasure, but it seems that the trend has greatly accelerated. One result is the tremendous increase in abortions, fatherless children, very challenging lives and worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the response (SatinDesire).
I am really curious to females views on sex and things of that nature.
I mean there are so many questions for me to ask haha.
1)What does it feel like for a woman?
2)Does it hurt as much as they say?
I could probably go on forever.I am beyond curious.After taking a Social Science course at my school I learned about personalities and things of that nature and I immediately became interested in the females point of view on everything.
It's good to know your healthy(LOL).I don't think 5 partners is a lot at all!I was talking about numbers like 20 and above.
I'm so new to your point of view and I just want to know everything I can.It's like a book you pick up and don't want to put down.
I know not all women who lose their virginity when their young sleep with a lot of guys.I really did word the question wrong.
I also feel left out being 18 and a virgin.I'm guessing the boy you were dating was older?I've heard that a good amount of girls lose it at 16.I have no problem with that as long as it's for right reasons.I just don't think they should go around to every guys bed...
How long do you usually date a boy before having sex with them?That is one question I am curious about
Like also does size really matter?Because I think I'm small :(
You seem like a beautiful and respectable girl.I'm thankful that you have responded to the question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry for the blanket terms and things of that nature I didn't mean for it to be rude or to upset some people.I am just curious and want to know the reasons why some girls feel pressured into having sex.I don't think girls that aren't virgins are bad,I just don't see myself with a girl whose slept with a large amount of guys.I never said sex was bad!I know it's not,I just wanted to know what guys do to pressure girls into sex.I think it's wrong that guys pressure girls in the first place.I'm not against sex in anyway nor am I against girls that aren't virgins.I am sorry that the wording of my question caused some to be upset.The question was never meant to anger.I am just curious...
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (4 January 2009):
Not ALL girls think they need to lose their virginity at a young age. It all has to deal with being responsible. A lot of the girls that do lose their virginity being young, get pressured from everyone talking about having sex and everything. Plus, a lot of guys seem to ask their girlfriends "So when do you think you'll be ready?" and questions like that so they feel even more pressure from guys like that. Of course, it is the girls choice but it usually is just pressure. But once again, Not all girls think they need to lose their virginity right away.
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