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*hicana09
writes:my boyfriend and i have been going together for a year, and i really love him. he's the best thing thats happened to me, and is my strength.he proposed to me a while back and i accepted. but im about ti graduate. im so scared because even though we're still going to be living in the same area. and still going to be within walking distance. he as another year of highschool. and ive learned that long distant relationships dont work. ive had this conversation with him befor....and he's willing to move in with me soon after i graduate.im only 17 and im waiting a year to go to college. so me and him will be going together. i dont want us to be on different levels. but im so scared that he might cheat on me. because i wont be in highschool anymore. like i said ive had this conversation with him about this before. and every time he has said im not going to cheat i love you. he's never cheated befor...is there any one out there in the same situation as me? any advice should i end it even though i dont want to...or should i just stick around and see what happens.
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 If he's never given you any reason to suspect that he may cheat then the only thing you can really do is try and block it out, because if you're having this paranoia it could lead to you falsely accusing him of cheating or whatever and destroy your relationship completely. You're just going to have to trust him, bite the bullet and 'take the chance'.
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