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writes:When people ignore you and your posts on social media, But respond to others what can do you do? Why do people do this?It’s like “Fomo” aka “ fear of missing out”We Are sadly in a digital world”, feels like school or work cliques all over again.. online..So I Ignore it? Know I should not worry but as everyone communicates online now and rarely speak on phone etc it’s a valid point!I have few friends and no family or kids/am single, but really value those friends I do have.Even my friends don’t use the phone anymore, sad hey?If I did call them it’d be awkward, “Why are you calling”?But 3 years ago it wouldn’t have been! times change fast.It s Iike I’m not important.We are losing our verbal communication skills I fear, therefore the social media question.And yes do I like, comment etc on others posts.I don’t post stupid stuff, guess my quieter life is boring Still feel left out though. Why don’t people notice my posts? Reply to this Question
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reader, louiselistens  +, writes (20 March 2018):
 Hi anonymous writer,
feeling ignored can be hurtful, especially on social media where it can feel like one big popularity contest and you're almost left feeling inadequate if your posts or comments don't get any likes.
If you are starting to feel negativity from the site, it may be time to unplug from the internet for a little while and call your friends and family in the real world, maybe see if a few of them are up for meeting for a coffee. Social media should be fun and a useful tool for communication, not a source of anxiety.
And try to remember, people's social media accounts can be very manufactured. Nobody is living a perfect life 24/7 but a lot of people want other people to think they do. You could be spending your time envying a life that doesn't even exist, instead of living yours.
Best wishes
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 March 2018):
 They might notice your posts but they just don't say anything. Don't rely to much on social media for communication. I know personally I scroll past a lot of things on social media, it doesn't mean that I did not see it, it's just I did not feel the need to say anything.
Why not message certain friends on social media to have a conversation with them? I am sure they would reply to a personal message instead of a general one you have posted up.
Also why not get out of the house and visit your friends. It does not need to be over the internet. Go and visit them. You might have only a few family and friends but it is still nice to pop in and say hello.
Also why not meet new people if you are feeling lonely. Check out some local groups or hobbies that would interest you.
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