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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, i have been with my boyfried for nearly a year and a half now, and we have been through alot of stuff together but always seem to stay together.i just wanted to ask one thing well, tonight i was about to look at his photos when he snatched it off me and turned them off i was like why did you do that, (i wanted to look at the photos of me and him we had took) and he was like oh nothing, but refused to give me his phone back, when he finally did, i went on and as i went down there was a photo of a lass that i no, am not friends with but know of, and its a picture of her posing in the mirror and then another of a different lass, now i say oh so this is why you wudnt give me your phone and he disagrees, i ask him why he has these photos and he said he didnt have time to delete them, he said that they was already on his memory card and that he couldnt be botherd to delete them when he first saw them, now he has had the memory card about 3 months.If this situation was the other way round he would be off his head, he is a very jealous person, and he dosnt like the fact that i still had photos i took on my phone of a lad friend of mine when me and him wasnt together. now one picture of this lass he had, when we saw her out he told me she was good looking. now whats going through my head is that, he had loadds of chances to delete them, right ? it takes no longer than 1 min, and as soon as he saw them he should have thought i shouldnt have them like he would expect me to do , he deleted most other of the photos on the memory card. ????what do you think ? kind of the same situation ?? when we first go together up untill 8 months of being together, he had kept some photos of a lass he used to really like, and he only got rid of them because they was saved to his phone and his phone broke.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (28 June 2010):
It's like i said they write that someone is cheating on them and when we give our advice or opinion! it's like oh well hes good to me or its not as bad as i thought it was.
i guess the truth hurts!!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 It's not the fact that he has the pictures is big sign but because he hid it from you is.
I suggest letting it go but watch his behavior more closely.
Follow your gut feeling!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talked to him and his answer was Well i have pictures of lads on there too does that make me gay ?i didnt mean to keep them i couldnt be botherd to delete them.
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reader, gennie433 +, writes (27 June 2010):
maby its not his fault. maby he just didnt think to delete them all because there were so many. i was in the same situation once.
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (27 June 2010):
I agree with Oregongrl1
check the dates
also the fact that he was hiding them from you is a very bad sign.
i would reconsider your relationship and have a talk with him
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (27 June 2010):
Check the date of the pic's and if your right and you stay w/ him well you'll be the fool. they do it once they do it twice because it didn't bother them the first time why should it the 2nd time.
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