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writes:Hi guys, i'm so confused. And asking you guys on the internet is the last resort I have to get some advice and clear my mind.Anyways, I've been in a FWB relationship with this guys for about 2 months. We started off by hooking up when we were both really drunk and that kept going on for 2 weeks in a row, until on the third week we just started hanging out. He'd take me out to eat dinner, we'd just hang out in the park, he'd pick me up from the airport, we'd study together. We were basically starting to get to know each other as people rather than just physical attraction. I felt as both of us just clicked, he is just really similar to me. Everything was great, i haven't felt butterflies in my stomach for such a long time with a guy. According to his friends he openly talks about liking me and that he's really into me, so i thought it was a mutual thing until these past two weeks we stopped talking less and less. prior to this he'd initiate contact and text me first but this whole week i've been the one initiating contact. I just feel it's not the same vibe as before.. Is it possible for him to lose interest in me in 1 week? I really want to mend things and bring them back to how they were...its not that i want a relationship i just miss him being around. Do you guys know how i can fix things and why he just stopped talking to me? I know I should just move on and trust me i usually would just be like mehh, but theres something about this guy.. Please help me out guys im so lost and its really getting to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): maybe he got busy with school work and other stuff in his life.
Maybe he met someone new.
Maybe he's sick with the flu this week
there could be any number of reasons why he hasn't contacted you this week. It's too soon to be jumping to conclusions.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 When a guy has a girl who will put out for him in a "FWB" arrangement, he really NEVER has much interest in that girl,.... except as she makes him feel good by doing nik-nik.....
You are imagining things if you think that there was a metamorphosis taking place, and you two were actually becoming an "item"....
Review your details again and decide if you want to be this guy's FWB or something else. IF you want to be "something else" (like a REAL G/F) then you have to look for another guy..... Sorry....
Good luck...
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reader, ShiShisAdvice +, writes (14 November 2011):
 Can't give up the booty, guys don't like girls that are easy. Always has, always will.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (13 November 2011):
You two need to clarify exactly where you stand on your relationship and what if any future you see together.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Maybe he knows you aren't interested in a relationship, but he is? That might be why he is pulled away.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 It is always bad when something starts at a physical level because it gets confusing and someone usually ends up developing feelings. Have you actually spoke to him about how he feels. It is Ok for his friends to tell you that, but has he actually told you that he likes you? There could be many reasons why he has went quiet this week, just give him some time. If you like him well then tell him, be straight and honest with him it is always the best way.
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