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writes:She was in their computer room talking to her mom, who was standing at the doorway. Then my friend and I began to walk by, him in front of me. When I reached the doorway of the computer room, I could see her staring at me like she normally does. Soon after however, I heard say eww in a joking sort of way and then she began to laugh. This reaction triggered her mom to turn around and say "oh, not this again!" while looking at me.This contradicts what she would normally do around me such as: look at me when I'm not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimic me, ask people she knows questions about me, show concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she blushes around me, etc.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 April 2010):
So someone sees you and says to her "Ooooh there's that boy you want to suck tougues with!!" to embarrass her in front of her mum.
She says "ewwwww"
He mum says "Oh not this again."
And probably after you left they all wonder why you don't ask her out when she's so blatantly dropping hints.
Why don't you ask her out?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Well, if she's around her Mom then who knows what she could have been referring to? Mom's extract "eww"s on a regular basis. Since you couldn't really see what went on behind your back, I would settle for all of the other evidence pointing towards her attraction to you. You don't know what this "eww" meant, and it could have been a reaction to something completely different than you think.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Ha ha, I've done the exact same thing. She probably really does like you but she might feel embarressed about expressing this in front of her friends or her mom. When I like a guy I'll do all that flirty stuff so that he sees it, but as soon as my friends or family are around I'll just laugh it off. If they say something like 'do you like him' I'll automatically say 'hell no!'. I know it sounds crazy but I think it's a self protection mechanism. If the guy doesn't like me in return then no one will know that I had it bad for him. And I'll only be flirty in front of him in the hope that he reciprocate and go that step further. If he doesn't my friends and family don't know anything and I'm saved from feeling like a reject. Crazy stuff but I hope I helped give you some insight.
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reader, KiwiBina +, writes (18 April 2010):
Hmm. This can be a bit tricky. I can't read the girl's mind but from what I'm reading from your description it seems that she has two sides to herself where you're concerned.From what I see, she might like you, but her peers do not, so she therefore acts differently around you when she's with or not with them.There's not really any reason any of us can tell you why exactly she did that, since there's about a 100% that none of us know this girl. I'm sorry but that is all I can really say.
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