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writes: Very long story short, me and a guy i had a thing with ended up bumping into each other a few days ago. One thing led to another and we slept together. It was a huge, huge mistake. Since then I found out he has a girlfriend and so I removed him from Facebook and told him i want to forget what happened and not talk about it again.What really freaked me out was when we were having sex he started taking photos of me. I mean, actually during the act. Afterwards i told him to delete them and he did. Why would he do that? Is it like some kind of trophy?
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 The photos are quite creepy. But yes, from a guy's perspective, he could be using them simply as masturbation material.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): He sounds very odd. Im glad you made him delete them. Why someone would do that is beyond me. Maybe he has a trophy album on a freaky site somewhere. I hope he deleted them properly and they weren't just sent to a recycle bin on the cam for retrieval later. I would definitely give him a very wide berth in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): Nothing but women responding to this. It could just be masturbation material for later. You may be hot, and someone that turns him on. The rest of the advice is true, never let them take a picture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was an actual camera not a phone, not that it makes a difference. I made him delete them in front of me.
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reader, Veronika_R  +, writes (26 August 2011):
I would never let my bf take nude photos of me in bed..be careful, he will probably use them when u break up with him..and post them on internet. My friend went through this actually..once on internet they will never disappear..
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 That seems really odd and honestly, rahter creepy. I would have been totally put off any kind of sex if the guy whipped out his cell phone to take pictures.
I hope for your sake that he really did delete them.
I would guess it was for bragging rights? Sounds rather lame and immature.
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