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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Can anyone help me figure out why this man said this to me ? I used to be seeing him,and i bumped into him soon after he stopped contacting me.he didnt meet me or phone me to discuss why he wanted to end things,even though he said he would.he just stopped contacting me.when i bumped into him,he asked me who these two guys were who i was with.i told him that they were my uncle and his friend.we had been walking past a pub and he was stood outside it and i stopped when i saw him.he also said "what are you going in there for ?" .he must have thought i was going into the pub but i was going to catch a train and had only stopped to speak to him.he asked how i had been too and he said he would phone me the next day too but he didnt and i havent seen or heard from him since.i've been avoiding going round town incase i bump into him but i feel like i want to go back there soon.what do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2011): As I said get out and enjoy yourself.......if you don't want to see him cos your not over him, then go elsewhere till your stronger... but you can't hide forever and if its a small town your obviously going to bump into him and his friends so its best to get it over with sooner rather than later - then you will just get used to it.
He's just an Ex and if we all hid from them we would never move on to something better XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): Thanks.just want to say the title of this thread isnt what i'm asking.i dont want to bump into him,especially if he is out with a woman and i'm not out with a man.i was wondering why he said those things to me and if i should go out even though i risk seeing him there.unfortunately i live in a very small town so the chances of me bumping into him are high.i even worry about seeing his friends incase they mention his name to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): Maybe he thought the 2 men were 'after' him, your heavies, so he was nice and polite!
Don't avoid going places because of him, why should you, he's behaved like an immature idiot. Get glammed up and get out there....you may just meet a decent bloke.
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