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female
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anonymous
writes: My crush and I are long distance. He's a military guy in Seattle and I'm living in Fla. We met in a duty he made 2 years ago. We keep in touch by email. I recalled calling him 4 months ago before he went on TDY again.Among many things we said, I told him in a kinda funny way that I wanted him to come back, and why does the army won't sending him back. He laugh with mischievousness, and he said it would be nice to do so, but didn't know if he could do that.Why he acted that way and laugh? Did I said something wrong. is that his way of telling me he doesn't want ot come back .What goes inside a guy's head, I don't know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): I'm in the military, and the most likely reason for him laughing is because for the most part, he goes where the Army tells him to go! And if you are currently in Florida, that particular location is a VERY popular and extremely sought after duty station. The likelihood of him going back for anything other than training, is very unlikely - not impossible mind you, but difficult. Be email friends or whatever, but don't expect much to come out of it, at this point.
One question though, who is the one mainly initiating this relationship? Are you the one most often calling him? emailing HIM? You may be leading a one sided relationship, and you have no idea what's going on on the otherside... I just hope you aren't putting all your eggs in one basket with this guy.
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