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*onystarkben
writes:Ok, so hopefully i won't get too much stick for this...I have been seeing my girlfriend for 5 weeks, she is smoking hot and we sleep together everyday, sometimes 2, 3 times a day. I have never had a problem getting turned on and she loves it how i have such a high sex drive.I don't drink or do drugs or anything - anyway, yesterday morning was fine. Last night we had dinner with friends and she wanted to go for a drive and we got in the back seat and got busy. She got on top of me and we started, but 2 minutes in, she asked me if i was ok... i still wasn't ...you know...all the way there ... i was mortified. I didn't know what the hell was wrong with me, i had this hot 19 year old on top of me and nothing was happening. If you have seen the episode of the inbetweeners with Simon and Tara, i felt like him. We waited a few minutes and she used her mouth, and then i was all good, and it was fun. But thinking about the first time, i'm really worried. what on earth could have been wrong??
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (23 May 2012):
Hey, well it just sounds to me like your worried about your sexual performance in general. You were probably a little worried at the time, maybe you thought you might get caught by a stranger or you feel your not worthy of this hot woman. I say stop worrying and go have fun.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 It happens, it's really nothing to worry about. My bf is a healthy 22 year old and we normally have sex at least once a day, but about once every 3 weeks things just don't work right. We just call it "failsex" and have a laugh and move on. It's especially amusing when it happens after he just gave blood! It's just a normal thing that happens, no matter how hot the partner and/or situation is. Especially in a cramped car, that's portrayed as sexy in TV but in real life it's often pretty awkward. Don't sweat it, especially if you were able to get it up later.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 Two or three times a day for five weeks, and then you had a couple of minutes of non-performance? LOL -- you SO have nothing to worry about. It happens.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 It happens from time to time I guess. I wouldn't be too worried about this.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 May 2012):
 Tony, Tony, Tony.... sometimes, Mr Happy isn't quite paying enough attention to come to attention (pun, not intended!).... For example, you and this lady-friend were in the back seat when you "got busy." Well, had you ever been "busy" in the back seat of this car, previously?
If not, perhaps Mr Happy was looking around at the nice upholstery.... or was noticing that there were no ash trays, but that there WERE two cupholders!!! You note that he finally DID start paying attention (came to attention).... so, perhaps it was just an anomoly, and Mr Happy will be happy to do his duties in future times in other surroundings....
Cripes, don't judge the little fella on just ONE incident!!! Whaddaya think you could/should do, anyway???? .... cut off his head?????
Good luck.... and keep us informend....
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reader, Abella +, writes (23 May 2012):
 Things happen. But if you feel concerned get your vascular health checked out with the Doctor.
Did you do a brisk run or too much at the gym? Did you have something on your mind, or a little worry that is niggling at you.
But maybe your were just trying for an extra special occasion to impress the new girl and Mr Happy wanted a litttle rest. Two three times a day for five weeks, that's amazing (good) that it's a wonder that Mr Happy is not already calling for a support team:)
Mr Happy is possibly just a little tired. You could be getting the flu. you could have eaten something that made the little Mr Men inside your gut feel a little wobbly.
Next time completely pleasure your girl and give Mr Happy a temporary sabatical. He will come back to normal very soon.
Don't be so tough on Mr Happy, he just wanted a little time off. He's be back to normal soon.
And any really loving nice girl will understand this temporary lull during what has been a magnificent effort on your part with the good support of Mr Happy.
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