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writes:The other day my boyfriend was trying to get me to have sex with him in the morning when I was still asleep by putting my hand on his penis. However I had gone to bed later than him so was very tired and not in the mood to get up let alone have sex. I'm half asleep and therefore didn't get a clear understanding of what he was saying to me, I only recognised something to do with wanking. The next thing I know I wake up with a startle to find him wanking, I turn my back to him and then he continued. After I got up to leave the room but returned as the bathroom was occupied. Should I have said something to him because it hurt that he couldn't wait a couple of hours until I got up. It's not like we don't have a good sex life because we do, we have sex a lot. So why did he feel that he couldn't wait.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Like eddie said, it's his hand and his penis. He might have felt hurt because you didn't want to do it to him, nevertheless he was turned on enough to want to finish the "job in hand" (excuse the pun!) I wouldn't worry about this one iota. Forget about it and continue to enjoy one another.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (18 March 2007):
maybe he was wrong to do it in front of you, but then again mutual masturbation can actually be a good exercise for couples to do in front of each other.
sex isnt always about love, you can be in a loving relationship and still just need a quick release, it wasnt a betrayal of love, rather a release of energy
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reader, eddie  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 He didn't want to wait. This is not about you, it's his hand and his penis. To do it front of you is perhaps not in great taste but you can't control his masterbation.
Unless he's trying to make you feel guilty, don't take it personally. If he's trying to make you feel bad because you didn't jump when he asked you to, he needs to get over that.
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