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writes:Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not the really serious one).2. When she had problems that annoy her, I am always there to support her and let her to release the anger and sadness on me even though she usually did not tell me but at least I was always there for her.3. When she didn't like me participating in the financial market, which I am great at since I manage to have 50.23% gain during the credit crunch and from the start of 2004 through the three quarter of 2010, my fund returned 41.025 percent annualized, which is abnormal compared with many funds. And I am only a 16 years old kid. I Quit the MARKET for HER.4. When she is not happy with her performances in singing, I still say she sings really well from the bottom of my heart.5. When I heard bad things about her, I chose to ignore it because I put my trust in her.6. When we have to leave schools due to Christmas holiday, I made her a Christmas card and the envelop too. How many people would do that? 7. When she is upset because the boy she fancy took two weeks to decide to ask her out. During these two weeks,I was there all the way to listen to her and use my small amount of happiness to cheer her up again, meanwhile I suffer, swallow all the tears and continue to support her even though I don't exist in her heart.But somehow she thinks I am pessimistic, cold and weird person. I pessimistic because I suffer from depression and can't forgive myself benefiting from the credit crunch which caused many people lost their jobs, went bankruptcy and lost their houses.I may be cold because I walk around the school on my own. The reason for that is I like to be on my own sometimes.I am weird because making money is my main hobby since somehow I am great at it.I understand she knows that boy for a long time however why can't she understand how much I love her.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (21 December 2010):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Mifbla
I will tell her when we go back to school and I hope she will be my girlfriend at last, which is unlikely to happen. But at least she will realize what I have done for her and it will make me feel better. So, I can move on.
I really appreciate your invaluable advises.
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Just tell her how you feel, the way you feel it. If she has waited for the guy for a long time then realize she most likely is going to stay with him. But at least then your feelings are out there. With that comes hurt. The only other way to get around that is to just get over her. There isnt anything wrong with you and if she is going to treat you as though you are weird and push you to the side then you shouldnt waste your time on her anyways. You say youve got more problems then most 16 yr olds. That may be so, but that shouldnt stop you from being happy. If you ever need to talk send me a message.
Mjfbla
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (19 December 2010):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Mifbla.
I seriously have lost my confidence since this is the second time I got turned down by a girl. I never manage to get a girlfriend and the only reason is I have far too many problems for a sixteen years old kid.
I am strong on the surface but not all the way through.
But I just simple can't tolerate it anymore. Do you think is a good idea to tell her all the things from a female perspective ?
I personally believe it won't help at all because she has been waiting for her boyfriend long time.
Lastly,I really appreciate your advice.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (19 December 2010):
You arent too weird!! Dont put yourself down, just because someone doesn't understand you. One day someone will.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (19 December 2010):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea may be I am those kind of people who are designed to continue their journey on their own or I am just far too weird for anyone to understand me. And I will tell her in front of her because I simply can't continue like this and there is limit for myself. I have been pushing the limit up constantly and now I just can't cope with it anymore. Thanks for all the advice.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (18 December 2010):
Tell her. Then you will know fer sure if she likes you or not. If she doesnt then you made no mistake. You sound like an amazing guy and I wish I had someone like you at my high school.You are different and people are going to treat you as so. But she sounds like she is around you enough to know the real you so if she still thinks that way about you then its her problem. You are sweet and you deserve a girl who will appreciate you. Im sorry hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): right this girl will proabbly not be a feature in your life in ten years you shouldnt give up on the financial market when you're obviously good at it and you cna get ahead of it and why dont you just tell her ?? you will regret it if you dont
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 You are wise beyond your years. Young girls usually fancy boys who look like studs and are socialable. Who's going to fancy someone with an unusual interest like making money at 16, or studying ancient texts? You have to understand that a lot of people are going to misunderstand you. Being different has its own advantages. Accept yourself and stop making people love and understand you when they don't. I see this relationship as one sided. You see her as girlfriend but she's just being with you because you are so nice, until she finds someone better. I actually see you as the ideal boyfriend. You feed her a lot of pessimism about your view in life when a lot of teenagers just want to have fun partying and postpone being an adult.
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