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*ndrew!
writes: im 16 and the girl i love is 18. she is bi and has a girlfriend she claims to love even though they never talk. she also says she loves me. is that possible? well i love her, i left my gf for her and its been months and she said she wants to be with me but she cant just break up with her gf. and im waitin till that day comes. i dont wanna wait for her forever but i dont think she'll leave her gf any time soon. should i just try and move on or wait a lil longer? i love her and she says she loves me but why cant she just explain to her gf. i mean her gf is prbly cheatin on her anyway. why cant she see that ill never hurt her and i love her with everything i have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Because you are her backup in case her reltionship crashes
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Hi
You are in the same situation as that woman who falls for a married man who is divorcing his wife 'soon'. But, then he can't do it now, no, let him talk to her gently and then, he can't do it today because the kids are ill and his friends are home... et cetera, et cetera. Get my drift? The girl you love wants the best of both worlds and well...
You understand, right? It is tough, but, stop expecting her to come back. Don't wait and look for love elsewhere.
Best of Luck
Love
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