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writes:sigh.... i cant stop thinkin about my cousin, im really attracted to her, we are ALWAYS together when shes over ever i look at other girls it takes mind off for her but when it does she appears out of nowhere! ive had a crush on her since i was seven, now im 16 shes 17 and i cant stop thinkin about her we both shows signs of attraction but when i try to talk to another girl she pops up and takes my attention like im destined to have her, why does this happen? cuz anymore and i might have sex with her can get somehelp
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh man....dats a lot to remember
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): i think ye are both a bit young yet to act on this, if you like spending time together, just do that but also spend time with other guys and girls your age, dont just focus on her, as hard as it is, just concentrate on developing a really good friendship, for the next couple of years and see how you feel then, because if it is something worthwhile and longlasting then it shouldnt matter that its not physical or an intimate relationship for awhile. Also theres no point in starting something if when it may not work, i know you may think now its something special and destined, and maybe it is, just as much as any other 'normal' relationship but it is a very serious and difficult relationship once you start it, it will change your relationship forever and the consequences it has for you and your family are huge. Most wont accept it and you could create feelings between you and your family and friends that will never be fixed regardless of the relationship working out or not. The idea of hiding such a relationship from family and friends is possible but i can tell you from experience that some will start to see a connection between the two of ye which is more than blood, it will involve lies and and the inability for both of you to act or show your feelings for each other in public or amongst your family/friends, and no matter how much you love someone, this is an important part of a relationship, particularly i think for women, it will affect your relationship, and though you will ignore it and it may not cause such a huge problem as to break the relationship, it does feel really bad at times and does affect little aspects of your life in different ways. it is a very hard relationship to be in and unless you really take your time to think about this before you jump in, it could really cause a lot of problems in your life. On the other hand it can be a very close and caring partnership but that is very very rare even in regular relationships.
Really Really think about this alot
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