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Why cant I orgasm when having sex? Is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (16 October 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2012)
A female Philippines age 41-50, anonymous writes:

why is easy for me to have orgasm using fingering or by myself than make sex to a man...why i never comeout or have orgasm is man used me by his penis..is there something wrong to my body?pls let me know why?thanks

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (16 October 2012):

person12345 agony auntNo you are 100% normal. Your vagina has very few nerve endings. The vast majority of women cannot/do not orgasm from penetration, it is completely normal. Your clitoris is your pleasure organ, not your vagina. Teach your guy to finger you the way you do it yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2012):

Sweetheart, you're perfectly normal. Many, probably the MAJORITY, of women do not orgasm from penis-in-vagina sex. When you finger yourself, you're directly stimulating your clitoris, a sensation most sex positions don't really duplicate. Get your partner to use his hands or mouth on you so you feel the same pleasure he does :)

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A male reader, justaguy71 Australia +, writes (16 October 2012):

Well, try to get him to go down on you if thats something you would like? I always made my wife cum orally or by hand, I think if I had enough staying power it would be able to be done via penetration but u know how it is lol :-)

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (16 October 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthere is nothing wrong with you.

most women do not orgasm from penetrative sex... teach your man to finger you the way you do to bring yourself to orgasm.

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