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writes: I have been visiting a girl for a couple of weeks now. We aren't an item yet, but I am relatively certain that she does like me. Something is holding her back, though. She works two jobs, so we have very little time to see each other, and any dates I make gets cancelled on short notice because of this. She also evades the topic of a relationship with me. Her sister assures me that I should just hang in there, and things will happen naturally. I have my doubts however. How do I take our friendship to the next level, or at least find out where I stand with her ?Maybe I am just too impatient and insecure about it ?
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reader, pops +, writes (4 October 2005):
Date other women. She is either too busy, or playing a game with you, and maybe her sister. If she is interested, and finds you are dating others, she will let you know. sometimes you have to show you are prepared to walk away before they show they are interested and make up their minds that you are worth their attention.
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reader, xixi +, writes (4 October 2005):
If she were really into you, she'd MAKE time to be with you. Or if she really can't, then it's not a good time in her life to be in a relation ship with anyone. So don't hold your hopes up too much for this one. Go ahead and date other girls. Don't make yourself her lacky. You don't deserve to be treated like an afterthought.
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